I think that studying abroad (which I have explained numerous times is not quite what I am doing) is sold as a romantic dream of a semester long holiday full of weekend trips, nights out, constant socialising and generally no hard work at all. Maybe that is the case for some, but I can guarantee it ain't always a holiday. Not only does it rain here *shock horror* you still have to work. And you have to work away from the support system you made back at your home uni. The people who understood when you literally didn't want to go to your room because it just meant there was another few hours of work waiting on a Sunday afternoon, the people who would get drunk with you on a Friday night because you were fed up after 3 long days in the lab where nothing had worked, and the people who would meet you during a lib session for tea to make you laugh!
I am not in anyway saying that life is bad here. It is not. For example last Saturday I went out, got free G&Ts, visited a street food festival and saw some cool music. And I constantly get to chat to people from all over the world (although there is no reason I can't do that back in the UK it's just less often). I am also still wearing shorts in October which has to be a plus right.
But I just wanted to point out that life isn't always what it seems on social media, blogs and the like. You really can put a different persona out there which only shows your life in a good light, and makes out that you are always having fun... Maybe this isn't a bad thing though. Since starting my #100happydays on instagram I really have had to find good things which happen everyday, and these are the parts of my life I want to share with people. Yes I can moan to my close friends and family about the not so exciting thing but there is a reason I only share the good stuff. At the end of the day it makes me happier. I enjoy scrolling down looking at the cake I had 5 weeks ago and remembering where I was ect. I wouldn't want to look back and see a load of work pilled up which I did one day.
Just a quick look at some of my favorite instagram snaps which highlight in my day to day life. (Mainly food I know but you should have realised that by now!) |
So what I am really trying to say is no life isn't always what you see on social media, but I think personally the good happy times are what you want to share with people!
But enough moaning! I have drunk far too much alcohol this weekend, acted a little out of character probably because I wanted to live the crazy study abroad dream, but at the end of the day I only have 2 months left here so I will just have to make the most of it... My flight is officially booked for the 17th December and time is passing scary scary scary fast as I am sure my fellow Barcelona girls (and all the other chemists abroad) will agree with.
Love these crazy ladies! |
My parents and little bro are visiting next weekend which I am very excited about especially now mum is fit and well enough to come for sure. I can't wait to show them around especially because mum and Tommy have never been to Spain and it'll be Tommy's first time on a plane. I do feel a little sorry for my dad having to fly with the both of them. And if anyone has any ideas on the best thing to do with the family when they've visited you abroad let me know.
I'll make sure I will update you all soon with some of the fun I have next weekend!
I'll make sure I will update you all soon with some of the fun I have next weekend!